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Sunday, 21 December 2008

  • Making Time for God

    So, it's been two months since I've posted here. Why? I don't really know. I haven't really felt like I've had anything to post, and I think that might be because I've been slacking off in my time spent with God. I've been more worried about "things" and "doing stuff" than I have about making time to spend reading God's word and praying. Even worse, even when I do have some time on my hands that would be best spent with Him, I tend to distract myself with pointless things.

    I need to make that commitment to God, that I'll spend that time with him. If I can spend time with my friends, why can't I make time for God? I keep a rather detailed schedule of my time, why don't I have time to read my Bible in my plans? It doesn't help that my church is 9 miles from my house. We've had inclement weather here recently, which makes that 9 mile drive very dangerous, so we haven't been going. Next week, I'm scheduled to work on Sunday, so that wipes out next week too. We won't even be going to Christmas church this week because of how our time between both families is scheduled out.

    God's been prodding me lately to spend more time with Him. I need to spend time reading His word and time in prayer with Him. I need to be able to get to church to be with fellow believers and participate in worship.

    How do you make time for God in your life? Does it happen spontaneously or do you need to schedule your "God time" into your life?

Sunday, 19 October 2008

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    Rock What You Got
    By Superchic(k)
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    Love Your Neighbor

    I think most people here know that my favorite subject to blog about is love. Not just shmoopy, kissy-face, sappy "luuuv", but LOVE. The kind of love that God shows us and says that we should show to one another. Today at church, one of our new pastors preached on loving each other, and I really felt that this was a good time to review it here too.

    Matthew 22:37-39
    Jesus replied, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself."

    Luke 6:31-33
    "Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that."

    John 13:34, 35
    "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, all men will know you are my disciples, if you love one another."

    These are just a few of the many verses in the Bible that talk about loving each other. Jesus spent so much of His ministry preaching about love and with love. He didn't perform His miracles to be the center of attention or to be the life of the party. He did them out of love for others.

    When we go out in the world, how easy is it for us to overlook others' needs? Pastor Brenda told us in her sermon that she was at the grocery store the other day. There was a young mother with a screaming baby a few lanes over, trying to check out. Although the screaming baby got everyone's attention, the other shoppers all ignored the mother, who was close to tears. Finally, a young couple, looking work-weary and tired themselves, went up to the mother and whispered in her ear. She broke down crying and nodded, picked up her baby and sat down on a bench to feed the child, while the young couple continued loading her groceries up in bags, and even helped her bring her purchases out to the car after she had finished. This young couple took 5 minutes out of their busy day to help a young mother in need, and not only were they a blessing to her, but also to everyone checking out that night. A random act of love doesn't just affect the persons directly involved, but also anyone that's watching.

    There are about 4,000 people in my church. If each of those people went out and showed God's love to 20 people this week, that's 80,000 people affected. If each of us did that every week for a year, we'd show God's love to over 4 MILLION people over the course of that year. Now, that might seem like a huge number of people, but remember, I'm not talking about going out and overtly witnessing, simply showing God's love to other people.

    What would happen if every Revelifer went out into the world and loved just 5 people this week? How many people could we affect this week? Or this year?

Friday, 19 September 2008

  • Currently Reading
    The Case for the Real Jesus: A Journalist Investigates Current Attacks on the Identity of Christ
    By Lee Strobel
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    Identity Crisis

    Lately, I've found myself questioning who I was, who I am, and who I am becoming. I think I might actually be smack dab in the middle of a quarter-life crisis. It wasn't that long ago that I was Miss Popular. I was frequently the center of attention. I was out with my friends all the time, and I didn't care who thought what of me. I was a little crazy and out-of-control, but overall, I was just a really fun person to be around.

    As I've gotten older, things have changed in my life. I've gotten married and I've rediscovered my faith. I've settled down and learned to enjoy staying home and resting. But something a little scarier has happened too. I've gotten boring. I've always been a little eccentric and crazy, and now, I'm just plain. I've never been content with being plain. When did I become this boring person?

    I'm having a hard time finding the balance between being the fabulous social butterfly or being a good wife and faithful Christian. When I start drifting to being a little crazier, I can't help but wonder how much of it is just vanity? I don't want to be one of those Christians that speaks eloquently about Jesus, only to turn around and care more about makeup or celebrity gossip. When I go out with my friends, can I have a good time and be a fun person to be with, without compromising my beliefs? It's such a delicate balance, with an increasingly large gray area. I want to wear cute clothes, but I don't want to show off parts of me that are only meant for my husband to see. I want to hang out with my friends, but my friends aren't Christians. They seem to think that being a Christian means that you need to behave like a nun. They don't understand that I cringe inside every time I hear them exclaim, "Oh my God!" I don't want to shun my social life, but where is the line drawn? Should I be at home reading my Bible while all my friends are down at the bar having a good time?

    I have no problem staying home and spending time with my husband. I love being a housewife. But I want a social life too. I don't want to be known as a boring person. But then I feel like I'm letting my faith slide if I'm having too much fun.

    How do you find the right balance between your faith and your fun? Is it really as difficult as I'm making it out to be?


    On a positive note, I won the third Reveloot Giveaway! How cool is that? I'm pretty excited about it. I never win anything!

Sunday, 17 August 2008

  • Cotton Candy

    *Note: I don't like to post on controversial subjects, but this is something that's been itching at me for a while.

    A few weeks ago, we were spending time with my husband's family, and his mother mentioned that she was reading "Your Best Life Now" by Mr. Osteen. "Oh, have you read his book?" she asked me. I said no, and that I most likely would not. "Oh, don't you like him?" she pressed. (Mind you, I try to avoid these conversations with my mother-in-law, as I rather enjoy the fact that I get along with her fairly well, and I don't really care to offend her.)
    "Well, no, in fact, I don't like him."
    "Why not? He seems very nice and he's got a really positive message."
    "Well, he's not teaching a complete Gospel and he rarely uses Scripture properly, to start."
    I really didn't want to get into the conversation at all, and luckily, we were interrupted by Grandma before I had to go into much more detail.
    *************************************************
    Tonight, my husband was channel surfing, which is actually not that easy when you don't have cable. He landed on Joel Osteen's Sunday evening broadcast, as he's done several times before. I sat down and watched it with him, and cringed every time that I heard Joel say "abundance" and "free", among other things. Then at the end of the show, Joel invited any unsaved people to pray with him. It went about like this: "Lord, I want to accept Jesus as my Lord and Savior and to make you Lord of my life. Amen." No mention of asking for forgiveness for our sins. No mention of WHY we need a savior. Just that we want to luuuv Jesus. Throughout his show, he twists Scripture to support his prosperity message. He takes verses that speak of our eternal life in Heaven and takes them out of context to make it sound like we are supposed to be showered in supernatural blessings in this lifetime, and that all God wants to do all day is to give us our greatest desires.

    Joel Osteen is dangerous to the true Gospel. Millions of people watch his show, and thousands attend his church to hear his positive message. But Joel's positive message isn't in the Bible! Joel is teaching that God is going to make us happy and healthy and wealthy, if we just believe that He will. The Bible does NOT teach that. In fact, the Bible tells us that it's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man to enter Heaven. We read in the Gospels about how Jesus' disciples left everything they'd had to follow him. They were the original believers, and Jesus sure didn't make them rich!

    Joel has repeatedly avoided talking about sin, Hell, judgment, and even the fact that Jesus is the only way to Heaven! In fact, on Larry King Live, Joel actually dodged the question "Is Jesus the only way?" by answering "Well....I can't really say...."

    SERIOUSLY??

    This is a man that many people are relying on for the entirety of their Gospel message. They are being fed a cotton candy Gospel. All the fluff, none of the substance. If we don't know about sin, how can we know how much we NEED a savior? Without sin, without the absolute depravity of man, there is no need for Jesus to die for us. Our good works are nothing but dirty rags to God. We NEED Jesus for our sins to be forgiven, and if I had to guess, I'd say that a lot of Joel's congregation has no idea *why* Jesus died for us.

    This video (clicky the linky) really sums up how much Joel Osteen skews the Bible message. It's only 3 1/2 minutes and worth the watch. I don't want this post to come across as being alarmist, but this guy needs to be exposed for what he really is. A smiling motivational speaker that makes people feel good, definitely NOT someone meant to be a pastor of the largest church in the world.

Saturday, 16 August 2008

  • Currently Reading
    The Apologetics Study Bible: Understand Why You Believe
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    Work In Progress

    As I mentioned yesterday, this past week at work, I'd been working overnights to help reset our toy department. This is no small task. It involves literally flipping the entire department. Some things are moved only an aisle or two, other things are completely moving across the department. There were 5 of us working 5 nights to get it done. We came close, but due to circumstances much beyond our control, we were unable to complete the task. We came close, but we didn't quite get it done.

    Last night, I dreamed that I was at work, doing the same thing I'd been doing the past 5 nights. I was plugging along, trying so hard to move forward with the project. I was standing in front of a big, empty, unfinished wall, frustrated that I couldn't keep going, that I wasn't able to finish the project right then and there.

    And then I woke up. The last thing I remember was staring at that wall, as it waited patiently for the finishing touches, clean shelves, new shelf strips, fresh new labels, and then finally, the merchandise to be placed on it. And right then, I realized that the image of that wall in my head was something God wanted me to see.

    I am that wall, and God is setting me up to be bright, shiny, new and full. I am a work in progress, and although I might not be finished on my time line, God will continue working on me until He thinks I'm ready. Lately, I've been frustrated that my life isn't exactly going according to my time line. Anyone that knows me even slightly well knows that I'm really looking forward to starting a family and becoming a mommy. I've been married nearly a year now, and there's no babies in sight. In fact, my husband and I are waiting a couple years before we have kids, so that we are financially capable of supporting them. This comes as no small frustration to me, as I feel as though I'm putting my life on hold, waiting for something that may or may not happen. I've spent a lot of time in prayer on this matter, and I really think that last night's dream confirmed to me what God has been trying to tell me all along.

    I'm not working on my time line at all. I can do nothing outside of God's plan and timing for me. And I can have faith that He has my best interests at heart. If that means that He's not going to let me be a mommy for a few more years, I need to accept that. I can see, thanks to the mental image of that big, empty wall, that God is still working on me, so even though it feels like my life is standing still, He is moving forward and slowly and maybe even imperceptibly working on me the same way I was working on resetting those walls. He's making me bright and shiny new so that I can be the best mom possible.

    How is God working on you right now?

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